My life is busier than ever these days - probably like most of yours. My family comes first. So I work at dating my wife, playing with and raising my kids. All of that takes time - time I gladly give. I love my family. I am the Lead Pastor of a new church - it’s growing as God continues to do amazing things there. That takes up a lot of time, and again I am so blessed to be a part of something so awesome. I write a little on the side, the kids and I hit the dojang four times a week for Tae Kwon Do… all of this and more. A busy life is something most adults understand. But a buy life demands demands that we prioritize, schedule, sacrifice and shift. Some things have to come first, some things I have to give up, other things have to wait. In my case, I have to maintain an organized schedule on the one hand, but remain flexible as well. Especially if I want to run. I have to allow for shift.
I love running, and it’s important for me mentally, physically and spiritually. I am a better husband, dad, and pastor because of it (maybe a future post on that). But other things will have to come first because I simply cannot reschedule them. So running for me is sometimes planned to the hour, and sometimes crammed in wherever it will fit. Like today. Skip lunch, go for a run, eat lunch in car on way home. Boom. That’s shift. It’s not when I would ideally plan a run, but it’s where it has to be today.
Here’s what I have found in my running experience so far (only 2 years in). I have to shift a lot, and it’s usually for two simple reasons.
1. Unexpected life changes.
You know, your work needs you to switch schedules, or they’re doing crazy construction where you like to run - whatever. Some people view these as meaningless interruptions, but I see them as a part of God’s “providence” - his active care, oversight, management and involvement in my life. I believe he puts these things into play. And because they come from him I know they are not meant to harm, but to help. Nevertheless, they are still sometimes initially very annoying. Things change and I am forced to shift. Adapt. Ultimately these things that are outside of my control forces variety in my running and tests my resolve. Good stuff.
2. A groove deepens into a rut.
When I’m in a groove everything is working, I’m runnin and lovin it, making progress and feeling like a runner! But after a while my groove deepens and becomes a rut. When I’m in a rut I continue to run but it’s harder, progress seems to slow and I don’t feel like much of a runner. When I hit this experience I need to shift. This is my choice, and it always helps. How do I shift and get out of a rut? I’ll try a new time to run, pick a new route, run different/new distances, break out the iPod, or leave it at home. Maybe you might try running with a person, or a new person - or no person.
Well, that’s what I was thinking about today on my run. It was a nice run from the church offices in misty/rainy weather. 5k through town, then down along the river and back.